GROUP PROGRAM
A CALL TO HEAL
A guided path to breaking cycles and paving a new way.
For the change-maker
disruptor
cycle-breaker
and visionary
For the change-maker disruptor cycle-breaker and visionary
Healing is a privilege.
IT TAKES RESOURCES (LIKE TIME AND MONEY) NOT EVERYONE HAS ACCESS TO.
But if you’re here, it’s likely that you do. Not only do you have access to these resources, but you also have the awareness that those who came before you did not – the awareness of the cycles, the patterns, the unconscious scripts, and the systems that are no longer aligned with who you’re here to be in this lifetime.
Maybe you’ve felt burdened by problems and pains that aren’t yours to carry. Perhaps you’ve started to realize that the behaviors you picked up in your early life are rooted in someone else’s fear-based mindset. You’ve likely experienced moments of emotional freedom only to be sucked back into old stories that you know aren’t true but feel hard to separate yourself from.
Having this awareness can sometimes feel like a burden, a heavy responsibility you don’t feel prepared to carry, but you and I both know that this very awareness is also your superpower.
I know, it feels big. That’s because it is.
But don’t you worry.
YOU’VE BEEN TRAINING FOR THIS FOR LIFETIMES. BREATHE THAT IN.
Within you lies a deep well of wisdom that transcends anything your cognitive mind can comprehend. An old soul is what you are.
You know that whatever isn’t healed is passed down, whatever isn’t transformed is transferred, whatever isn’t repaired is repeated, and a lot of what you carry isn’t yours (whether it be generational, collective, cultural, or personal – more on this later).
And you, my love, have been tapped on the shoulder by your higher self, Spirit, your ancestors, your unseen team of guides. They have charged you with the call to break these cycles and do the sacred work of healing so that you can pave the way for a new order, a new way of life that is more free, more true, and more you.
My question to you is: Will you accept the call?
HOW DO YOU know YOU’VE BEEN chosen TO BREAK these cycles?
01.
You see things differently.
You have the gift of perspective. You don’t feel aligned with the way people around you are living – you notice the ways they limit themselves, the expectations they carry (and project onto you), and the codes they ascribe to. You see them living by societal and cultural values like approval, security, and prestige. You’re here to live by different values, more personal values, values like integrity, honesty, and authenticity. This can make you feel alone, sometimes even guilty or wrong, for seeing things differently.
02.
You have an inner knowing.
You have the gift of intuition. A part of you knows the beauty and wisdom of your inner guidance, even if it’s merely a whisper. You feel pulled by something greater, an unseen force that runs through your veins and connects you to a higher perspective, a higher order. But the noise of the outside world can often drown out that inner voice, leading you to make choices that don’t feel fully aligned or authentic. You know the consequences of overriding your intuition, and yet it’s often easier to follow the pack or do the “practical” thing. This slowly chips away at your self-trust and leaves you feeling inauthentic. Still, you are curious about connecting to your intuition and trusting it more fully.
03.
You are a sensitive soul who feels things deeply.
You have the gift of empathy. For most of your life, you’ve been an energetic sponge, absorbing the emotions of those around you, feeling responsible for them and their experience which has led to cycles of your own, like self-sacrificing and playing the hero or even suppressing your own emotions and disconnecting from yourself. Over time, you’ve likely over-identified with these roles and responsibilities causing you to lose connection with your true self. This can leave you feeling lost, confused, and often unappreciated.
HERE’S THE THING.
Living in YOUR truth and selfhood, by YOUR values and divine plan, means having the courage to examine and potentially move away from what feels familiar, predictable, and “safe.”
It means doing things differently than those who came before you, which probably brings some fears to the surface. There’s the fear of failure, fear of disappointing others, fear of rejection, fear of being alone, fear of the unknown, fear of getting it wrong, fear of no longer being relatable, fear of being misunderstood, fear of being perceived as judgmental or ungrateful…and most significantly, the fear of your own power.
But you and I both know that once you’re on the other side of these fears, you become unstoppable — bulletproof, resilient, unshakeable. The things that once got in your way no longer hold power over you — you are the one who leads.
With great power comes great responsibility.
Read my personal story on breaking cycles.
You may be asking yourself:
CAN I DO THIS? WILL IT BE TOO HARD? WHY ME? WILL THEY STILL LOVE ME? WHAT WILL THEY THINK? WHERE DO I EVEN START?
Great questions, here are some answers:
Can you do this? Yes. Would it be easier not to? Yes and no. I want you to consider that it takes as much energy to stay in these cycles as it does to break them - one keeps you stuck, the other moves you forward.
Will it be too hard? You can do hard things, next question please.
Why you? You might be thinking, “Ugh, can’t someone else just take care of this?” but this is the exact mentality that perpetuates these very cycles. Evolve or repeat. The choice is yours.
Will they still love you? We can’t predict or control how others will respond or react. The truth is, you may ruffle some feathers, you may outgrow relationships, some may end, others will strengthen. And through it all, you will be okay.
What will they think? You can care about what they might think, but you don’t have to carry it and take it on as your own. Let them be with their discomfort, they will also be okay.
Where the hell do you even start? Great question. See a breakdown of the process below!
One thing you should know before we continue:
This WORK is RADICAL.
It will change you. It will change your relationship to yourself, other people, and the world.
It will require deep self-care and compassion, strong energetic boundaries, and the capacity to receive support, especially as you are actively working on creating new patterns.
You will need to give yourself permission to access and feel the full range of your emotions, including anger and grief. You will need to be willing to release what is no longer yours and start showing up differently, even if it means disappointing others.
There will be times when you won’t have the capacity to be there for others because you’ll be so fiercely tending to yourself.
THEY SAY THE PATH WE ARE MEANT TO WALK IS OFTEN THE PATH WE FEEL THE LEAST PREPARED TO WALK.
WALK IT ANYWAY.
YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY …
EVOLVE or REPEAT
MANY OF THESE CYCLES DIDN’T START WITH YOU, BUT THEY CAN END WITH YOU.
By choosing *not* to do the work, you continue living a life that doesn’t feel like yours, ascribing to values that aren’t aligned, playing by rules that are outdated, and being in roles that aren’t true to who you are here to be.
On the flip side, by choosing to do this work and answering the call, you are serving your highest purpose and let me tell you, when you say yes, the Universe rewards you in the most abundant ways. Your courage, your bravery, and your strength will not go unnoticed.
This is how you become free to express and experience who you actually are, separate from how you were programmed and the expectations that shaped you.
If you’re still with me, then I invite you to
A CALL TO HEAL:
a group coaching program that will guide you through the 3 stages of breaking cycles and paving a new way.
HOW IT WORKS
HOW IT WORKS
MONTH 1:
RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY
Answering The Call
In the first month, we move through the three stages of radical responsibility which include:
Stage 1: Claiming (and more importantly being witnessed by others in) your acceptance/willingness/openness to the sacred call in community. Attuning to our collective wisdom in the group as each person takes ownership of their path as a sovereign being who is free to make their own choices.
Stage 2: Bringing to the surface, acknowledging, and clearing any resistance/denial/fear that you may be clinging onto, often on a subconscious level, as a result of accepting this role. This can include navigating blame, anger, and other related emotions that keep us from fully stepping into this role (once this is complete, may require circling back to stage 1 to reclaim from a more clear place)
Stage 3: Identifying and dissolving any agreements/responsibilities/roles and expectations you consciously or subconsciously agreed to in this lifetime, making any necessary amendments and changes for the path ahead.
Unburdening The Wounds
In the second month, we begin the unburdening process within the 4 distinct categories of wounds we carry.
These wounds are often at the root of the very cycles we’re here to end. Using an approach informed by Internal Family Systems, we begin to break down the layers of protection we have built around these wounds, understand the impact of the experiences and the narratives we formed/inherited, and directly heal the wounds that resulted so the cycles can come to an end.
Personal wounds that come from our own lived experience (often inner child wounds)
Collective wounds that come from our collective consciousness/groups
Legacy wounds that have been inherited + passed down through generations
Cultural wounds that are absorbed from our environment
MONTH 2:
RADICAL HEALING
MONTH 3:
RADICAL LIBERATION
Paving A NewWay
In the third month, we move into a phase of integration which involves rebirthing and revisioning a new way for ourselves and our lives moving forward.
This also means establishing a new set of rules to live by, re-anchoring into our personal values, and connecting to a newfound sense of emerging selfhood separate from who we thought we needed to be/who we became in early life in order to gain a sense of approval, safety, and control.
Here, we learn the practical skills required to sustain ourselves through boundary setting, energetic clearing and cleansing, emotional/nervous system regulation, and strengthening our connection to our gifts.
In this final month is also where we hold space for the natural shifts and changes that will start to manifest as a result of the work in month 1 + 2 as you navigate new dynamics in your relationship to yourself, other people, and the world around you.
PROGRAM DETAILS + WHAT TO EXPECT:
3 month group coaching program: 3 weeks on + 1 week off for integration and rest (9 sessions total, recorded for replay access on Zoom)
Curriculum supplemented by weekly exercises, assignments, and additional resources to deepen learning and integration
All calls will incorporate a variety of interactive practices and exercises including guided visualizations, journaling, subconscious reprogramming, parts mapping, ancestral honoring ceremony, and more
Open enrollment: next cohort starts Spring 2024
FOR YOU, FOR THOSE WHO CAME BEFORE YOU, AND FOR THOSE TO COME
LET’S PAVE the WAY together.
Total Investment:
3 payments of $550
NOTE: WE WILL BE AWARDING THREE $500 SCHOLARSHIPS FOR THOSE IN NEED OF FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE.
If this applies to you, send an email to hello@talliadeljou.com with the subject line: “Call to Heal: Scholarship.” Include a few sentences about yourself, what this program means to you, and why you’d like to be considered for the scholarship. A member of our team will be in touch if you meet the scholarship qualifications.
Imagine breaking free from the cycles you’ve inherited…
and absorbed without guilt, blame, or shame and instead honoring the lessons you’ve learned and celebrating the opportunity to change course for the better with the support of a like-spirited community.
Imagine having the freedom to find and express your true self without holding back or being afraid of ruffling feathers, disappointing others, or being judged.
Imagine trusting your intuition and allowing your inner voice to guide you without overthinking, overriding it, or doubting its wisdom every time it speaks to you.
Imagine sharing your gifts of empathy and compassion without taking on responsibility for how everyone else is feeling, and instead practicing clear energetic boundaries that keep you in connection with yourself.
Imagine moving forward without the weight you’ve been carrying your whole life, much of which was never yours to carry in the first place.
Imagine being on the other side of your fears, knowing you did the sacred work of healing not only for you and those who came before you, but for all who will be touched by your impact and legacy.